Love connection. Fellas, please don’t be that guy; be that guy we’d want to see for a second date.
I get it: dating is confusing. I wish there was a manual on how to nail the first date and keep a person interested and a road map on how to live happily ever after.
But there isn’t. There is no magic app that can hook us up with our soulmate. So there is work to be done. Do you ever wish a woman would just tell you the way to her heart? Let me help you out. Everything you do says something about you. The amount of thought and effort you put forth speaks volumes about the type of potential partner you may be. First dates are about so much more than food; they are about the experience. If a woman had to rate you based on the experience you provided, what would your first date say about you?
The communication leading up to the first date is everything. Have you let her know when and where the date will be? Have you contacted her leading up to the date? Oftentimes men will communicate the date and time for the first date but aren’t mindful to keep in touch leading up to the big day.
A “Hey, Beautiful, can’t wait to see you Friday” text takes no time and lets her know that she is at the front of your mind. Don’t forget to send her a text with a link to the venue. It’s definitely a thoughtful gesture that’ll award you bonus points.
Do Guys Buy Flowers Anymore?
No woman since the creation of Eve has ever been offended by a guy that brings flowers. It’s a sweet gesture and displays a level of thoughtfulness that’s too often missing from the dating scene nowadays. True, not all women are wooed by flowers.